Ending On A Hot Note…
Monday, September 27th, 2010Looks like we are going to wrap up September with the heat we should have had all summer long…. Don’t get me wrong, I’m enjoying it, I just wist it would have been here when it was supposed to have been!
It was an OK weekend. Friday I was kidless and just hung out by myself and watched movies… I will admit, I am really liking my Blu-Ray player (I bought it reconditioned for super cheap!), I love technology and movies, so it’s the perfect combo. Red Box now has Blu-Ray’s for $1.50 a night… Although they get sold out quick!
Saturday was Lucy’s first soccer game. She did great, although was a little worn down from the heat…. All the kids were, even on that side of the hill it was hot! Her team, The Killer Mermaids lost, but they put in a great effort. Afterward we headed to the Pierce College Pumpkin Patch… always a favorite with my kids, it runs now til Halloween.
Sunday morning Bing awoke early complaining of eye pain? I thought he had just poked it and got him back to sleep… But as the day progresses it continued to hurt. We are off to the Doctor’s in a hour or so to figure out what is going on? To keep him from rubbing it I got him an eye patch… so he looked like a tiny pirate all day yesterday! (There’s a pic on Facebook)
As I sat on the grass watching Lucy play in her first soccer game, on her first team and across the field could see my Ex and her new husband (who unannounced to me is the coach of the team) my mind wandered a little. I thought about my experiences playing sports, my Mom and her partner the coach of my t-ball team and how my Dad never came to my games. And I thought about trust and how you can give it to someone, allowing them access to your memories, fears and insecurities… And some people can so easily turn against you using that trusted information as a weapon of destruction. It’s not much different than handing someone a loaded gun and thinking they won’t turn it on you… Only to be shot execution style moments later. People amaze me, be it the Dad who skipped out on his chubby kids soccer and t-ball games or the self proclaimed partner who gathers your most intimate secrets for later use against you. But then Bing grabs the video camera and I have to give a brief technology lesson and I am brought back into the moment, back to watching a tried six year old run her pigtails up and down the field.
Is that Bunny loaded? Good for you guys! Segways don’t fly!!! Good news for pie lovers. Bears never give up… Unless zucchini is involved! Good for Kim.
Rock on, Jack





